Monday, May 20, 2013

Stripe Your Dots


Hi Loves,

Happy Monday, today is all about mixing prints!  

This morning as I was getting ready for work, I wanted to wear something cute, bright and comfortable.  I selected my red and white polka dot maxi dress, an inexpensive dress that I have owned for several years now.

Now I wanted to do something a little different that was not a white cardigan or white blazer. I found my white and red striped light cotton sweater and tried it on together and it worked. Mixing polka dot and stripes is a big trend right now but it also gives any outfit a bit of a pop with out trying to hard.

TIP: Whichever patterns you choose to mix (flower, stripes, polka dots, safari, etc…) make sure that at least one of the colors pulls from the other (See 2nd picture).

Go out experiment with pieces already in your everyday wardrobe and enjoy!
 
Be Blessed and Inspired,
 
XOXO~Ruthy
 








Friday, May 17, 2013

Health Post - Gastritis & Juicing!


Hi!
I know I have been m.i.a for a very long time. However, I have that burning desire to journal my thoughts, fashion blog, and maybe even Vlog!  My brain is running 100mph and I need to release some of these thoughts & feelings into cyber space. Maybe someone will read it maybe or maybe not! Nonetheless, I am going to tell you about a little health issue I am currently going thru.
On Sunday April 28, I was diagnosed with “Gastritis” and since then it has been quite a difficult experience for me as far as nutrition goes. First let me just say I did not know the seriousness of this infection/disease. If left untreated it could turn into an ulcer and even stomach cancer!
 Well I finally went to the ER after 5 days of intense stomach pain, nausea, vomiting and diarrhea. Once the labs came back, I was immediately put on antibiotics and IV to help with the dehydration.  I was also given pain medication to alleviate my nausea.  After a few hours of stabilizing treatment, I was sent home with three prescriptions drugs. By the time I was discharged from the hospital, all the pharmacies were closed which was a blessing in disguise. Why was it a blessing? Well because it forced me to do some research on this disease and look for natural ways for my body to heal itself. But most importantly, it made me “think” about what I was putting in my body. Hours later, what I mostly encountered on the Internet was a TON of different and confusing views on how to treat this digestive disorder. What I did find on most of these web forums and articles was that the inflammation is triggered by certain foods therefore; I had to eliminate these foods in order not to trigger the horrific pain associated with it. However, BEFORE I read my discharge instructions and did my research, I ate French Fries from McDonald's & a Turkey Hero (I was starving!).  Guess who had pain most of that night? This girl right here.
Obviously once I made myself, more knowledgeable I started eliminating foods that caused me nausea. For example, I noticed the other day that when I ate anything with onions I immediately felt nauseous. Of course, I would contribute it to other things never realizing that my body could not process it correctly because of all the acid it produced. I quickly found out that my stomach could not tolerate bread, dairy, very little meat and other foods like tomatoes and spinach.
I also had to limit my lemons and orange intake, the acid in citrus fruit can cause deadly stomach cramps. Since I was not fully aware of this, Monday morning I ordered my breakfast juice with my usually lemon and orange to give it a tangy flavor. Ohhh Boy was that a bad idea, not only was I paying for Sunday’s sin I was also paying for Mondays sins as well!
Let me tell you when you are in excoriating pain and you find out what the cause of that pain is you go above and beyond to make sure you never feel that again. Hence, I have been juicing and drinking smoothies these past few weeks. At first, it was not easy but now I cannot imagine living without “Juicing”! I know it sounds crazy but my body feels completely different in just a short amount of time. I have more energy, my weight has significantly decreased (5lbs in 2 weeks), my skin glows, my hair is shiny and my nails are strong.  I love theses natural “side effects”!

 
I hope that I will find the time to post more updates on my “juicing” and plant based diet adventures and fashion post!  Think Coral, Mint and Tribal/Aztec Prints for the spring and summer while sipping on some kale & carrot juice.

Stay blessed and inspired!

PS: Below are some pictures of me post hospitalization - shameless selfies, lol.




 
XOXO

~Ruthy

 

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Thought for the day

Thought for the day:

I believe Obedience and Sacrifice go hand in hand. Many times when we are being obedient to what God wants from us we are sacrificing what we want. It’s not easy to say “no” to yourself but it is worth it to say “yes” to God. That is my thought of the day as I struggle to wear clothing that is appropriate “obedience” to God’s word. I will elaborate on this topic another day.


Much Love,
~Ruthy

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Looks of The Day (Thursday)

Happy Thursday Everyone! It’s another cold and rainy day here in NYC and it’s officially the 5th day into spring! Seems everyone is somber because of the weather so today’s looks will be packing a power punch of color & life. Today’s Looks of the Day is called: “Gimmie Some Color!”.


Yellow


Orange


Red


Green


Blue


Pink


Print or Bold!


Much Love Dolls,
~Ruthy


Wednesday, March 23, 2011

20 Tips for Living an Uplifting Life

The way you live your life does matter make the best of it

Through out my walk in life I realized that many of the things I have done or decisions I made effected how I felt about myself (good or bad). The bible says we will reap what we sow and many times, we sow seeds of destruction with our thoughts and actions. Below are some tips to live an uplifting life. Please note this is in no way a substitute for counseling or professional help for those that need it. However, it is sound biblical & personal advice for those that wish to live a more productive & power life. 

  1. Power your Mind – Begin each day with positive thoughts. “Today will be a good day, no matter what”. A confident start usually leads to a positive constructive day.
  2. To thy self be true – Live a life of integrity and do not lie to yourself. If you know what you are doing is a bad choice than do not do it. Golden Rule: Do not do what will make you feel bad later, remember you reap what you sow. Make choices that you will be happy with afterwards. Begin to sow good seeds in your life.
  3. Visual Power – start paying attention to the type of books, movies, TV. shows and music you read, listen and watch. What may seem like a small thing is major. These “visuals” minister to us and we do not even realize it. What you focus on is what you become. If you’re into pornography than you will reap fornication, if you’re into violent films than chances are you will become violent. Start paying attention to what you are feeding your soul visually.
  4. Be Selective – be kind to everyone but don’t let everyone into your personal life/time. You do not need to spend your time with someone who is constantly whining, negative or bitter. Build friendships with people who are inspiring, uplifting and will help you grow. These are the type of friendships that will motivate you and even spark passion back into your life.
  5. Be Aware –The bible says in Philippians 4:8 “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise”. Start paying attention to the thoughts that you allow to “float” in your head. If they are negative thoughts of putting yourself down – Reject & Redirect (fix) them! Focus on all the positives in your life i.e. health, life, job, spouse etc. Keep your mind full of the word of God.
  6. Get rid of envy – Don’t compare your life to others. Your journey is not meant to be the same as your next-door neighbors, your best friend or your co-worker, etc. There is a reason why the bible says thou shall not covet. God does not want you to desire someone else’s life. He has already designed a perfect and unique plan for your life. Ask him to show you!
  7. Take control of your environment – Paint your home/favorite room a bright color (open your window!), buy flowers, and listen to uplifting music. Get rid of all that is negative i.e. clutter, dark rooms/music/books, “bad” food, etc. Spend time in the presence of God.
  8. Celebrate Yourself! – Any progress however small or big, take the time to enjoy and savior it. Tell the Lord how grateful you are for that “success” or “progress”, i.e. handling a difficult situation with a good attitude – celebrate that!
  9. Be Grateful! – As you celebrate yourself take the time out to thank God for all that you have. Do this everyday (whatever time works for you) and name ten things you are grateful for. i.e., food, hot water, shelter, good friend etc.
  10. Make a list of your accomplishment & review it – you can do this annually or every couple of months, whatever works for you. Remember your accomplishments don’t have to be the same as “Suzy Millionaire’s”. These are things that YOU are proud of i.e., you stopped cursing, weight loss, helped someone in need.
  11. Take a Load off – Relax & Trust God to handle your problem. The bible teaches us not to be anxious for anything but to present all things to him (Philippians 4:6). Live by his word! You will feel supernatural sense of peace and joy. Now that doesn’t mean make bad choices and expect God to bail you out; what this means is when you have a situation that is out of your reach except God’s hand to work in your favor.
  12. Learn something new – The bible speaks a lot on knowledge, wisdom & understanding (Book of Proverbs). Take time out to learn and understand new things. Be creative! You never know if you will discover a hidden talent that will lead you to a new path of unexpected success.
  13. Get out of your comfort zone – we can so easily get use to or adapt to certain situations/environments and than become scared to step out into the unknown. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be scary but also thrilling, a rush of life! It can be as simple as helping a total stranger, trying new food, volunteering your time at a local hospital or shelter.
  14. Serve others–The bible teaches us to love one another as ourselves and take one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). I like to call this “The Love Walk”. It means walking/acting in love and not just talking about it. You will be surprised how helping others can be so fulfilling. Whether it is assisting a single mother with her kids, opening the door/elevator for a stranger, carrying your elderly neighbor’s groceries or mowing their lawn, these small acts reap in huge blessings for your soul. You will learn the more you give of yourself to others the more YOU will be filled.
  15. Do something nice for yourself – we are not called to be martyrs so take time out for yourself as well. It can be as simple as getting a manicure, taking a nice long bath, buying a new dress, or taking a nice long walk, etc. This “you” time will re-freshen your spirit.
  16. Time well spent – Each day spend time doing something that brings you joy i.e., cooking, singing, reading the bible, etc. Even if it’s just 30 minutes, it’s the little things in life that can bring us great joy. Remember your joy is a gift from God and it is contagious.
  17. Get rid of clutter – I strongly believe a cluttered home is a cluttered mind. Get rid of all that isn’t needed in your home/life. Not only will you become more organized but also breathe life into your living space, mind, body and soul.
  18. Join a growth group or bible study group – Spend time growing in the word of God with others. Not only will you grow spiritually and have spiritual support but you will get to make great connections with other believers.
  19. Speak Victory over your life – This is one of the most powerful things you can do daily. The bible states in Proverbs 18:21 – “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love to talk will have to eat their own words”. Start speaking LIFE over your very being and proclaiming God’s blessings over it, i.e., I am loved, I am a new creation, I am talented, I am physically, spiritually and mentally blessed, etc. You will see how the things you proclaim with your mouth start will begin to take form and become “life”.  
  20. Love Your Creator – Take time everyday and spend it meditating on his word/promises and all the wonderful things he has done for you no matter how great or small. These thoughts of Love will inject life into your very being. 
Love,
~Ruthy
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Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Looks of The Day (Tuesday) - Wedding Special

Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone is enjoying their day so far. In anticipation of an upcoming wedding I am attending, today we are going to look at wedding guest attire. First, let's go over 4 quick & simple rules.  The number one rule is never wear white - this is the bride’s day (Don’t steal her thunder!). Number two never wear jeans no matter how “casual” the wedding. Rule number three never wear sneakers or dirty work boots, there are just so many other alternatives, i.e. flats, embellished sandals etc. Rule number four remember it is a wedding not a nightclub. Wearing skimpy outfits to a wedding is always a bad idea, besides you can look sexy/sophisticated without over exposing yourself. Today’s Looks of the Day is called: “Wedding Stunner” Below are four wedding "types"and what to wear depending on the event. They all range from Super Glamorous to Sophisticated Casual.

Luxury Wedding – usually very formal and high end. Long gowns are the best wardrobe choice for this type of wedding. However, if you decide to go shorter make sure the dress is at least mid length.






Traditional Wedding – this kind of wedding is conventional, you can wear shorter more form fitting dresses.







Destination (Beach) Wedding  - Think soft, long & flowy. Wear vibrant colors if possible, flat sandals are acceptable to this type of wedding.






Backyard Wedding – think casual chic. This is usually a very small intimate event with close friends & family. Wear long to mid-length floral or print dresses.





As always, would love to hear your thoughts, Xoxo!
~Ruthy